Kristin's Blog
Weekend Musing
“A good intention clothes itself with sudden power.” Ralph Waldo Emerson What are our intentions? What do we really want? When we feel the sudden rush of energy – what is our reaction? Fear? Joy? Power?
Lying
Today’s A Fine Line offers a word about lying. This has been a topic of discussion recently in several circles. Suffice it to say, we have probably all been exposed or even the victims of someone lying to us. I want to shed light on two forms of lying: those who lie by commission and…
Rule #9
As many of you know, I work very closely with educational organizations in our effort to reform, build, and lead excellence in the United States educational system. It is an uphill battle for many reasons – some obvious, others not so much. Nevertheless, the commitment, passion, and work ethic of those devoting their lives to children…
The 3 Things
Loved this week’s New York Times Corner Office interview with Shivan Subramaniam, the CEO of FM Global, a commercial and industrial property insurer. Again, the simplicity of the wisdom is brilliant. Over the years, he and his company have crafted very simple goals for their company. They call them “key result areas” or K.R.A.’s. As he…
Holiday Blues
It is hard to believe the holidays are upon us! They are! As I ran errands this weekend, I couldn’t help but notice folks with less than chipper smiles on their faces. Frankly, I was probably one of them! Who knows why; there are a myriad of reasons which may be causing folks to feel…
Weekend Musing
“I attribute my success to this: I never gave or took an excuse.” Florence Nightingale What can we accomplish if we stop the blame game, quit making excuses, and take back the reins?
Effective Empathizing
Recently, a client told me about a conversation where she felt she was being pacified by a preoccupied, passive listening. The listener, her colleague, was peppering the conversation with an occasional ‘uh huh’ and ‘well, do that’ or ‘sounds good’ to what she considered very important and sacred information. She could tell the listener was multi-tasking and not…
Clampdown On The Question
Have you ever been at a social outing, a professional dinner, or even a networking event when someone just keeps asking you a question which borders on inappropriate and outright rudeness? You have no intention of answering to the level of detail the person wants; and yet the inquisitor simply will not give up? I have. More…
Time-Wasters - the Tyranny of Email
I don’ t know about you; yet my basic email traffic has soared in the last few years. Disregarding the obvious traps for eating time such as FaceBook (just ask Betty White!), Twitter and all the other social media temptations; basic email from just your internal network (not including customers, potential clients, and other external…
Remember James Dean?
Recently I was in conversation with a group of young people (To me, that means anyone under 30) about ‘old movies’. I mentioned a favorite of mine: Giant, starring Rock Hudson, Elizabeth Taylor, and James Dean. Giant was the last of James Dean’s three films as a leading actor, and earned him his second and…