As the holidays rapidly approach, December becomes a hectic time! Shopping, cooking, wrapping, decorating, and of course, all the year-end business deadlines! The last week of December can be an extremely productive week in 2013; and can help position the start of 2014 in the best possible way! So, this blog is intended to be a handy ‘end of the year’ checklist to help guide us – and trigger additional things to think about before the stroke of midnight on New Year’s Eve!
1. A Few Miscellaneous Financial and Healthy Tips for the Last Week of 2013:
- Use your Flexible Spending Account. For those of you who have an FSA – for use on qualified health procedures and expenses – you have to ‘use it or lose it’ before the date specified on your account. This can be 12/31/13!! So be sure to check this so you won’t be penalized. Yet, for those of us with HSA (Health Savings Accounts) – we do not have a use it or lose it! Yet, I try to get all those pesky tests (colonoscopies, dental cleanings, etc.) completed in the last few months of the year for insurance reasons.
- Donate to your favorite charity. Yes, we all like those tax deductions – yet, it is also a great gift to give in honor of those you admire and love. I try to give to those charities that the person supports, such as the SPCA or the Genesis Women’s Shelter.
- Make a budget for 2014. December is the perfect time of year to reassess where you money went in 2013 – and what/how you want to invest in 2014. Want to take a trip in 2014? Then, we have to make a plan for this NOW; same goes for business investments, new cars, home additions, etc.
- Make your plan for health and wellness! I don’t know about you, yet my discipline had simply gone out the window these past 3-4 weeks! In an effort to ‘change my frame’ for 2014, I am already making my plans for January! Join a Pilates studio; sign up for online Weight Watchers; enroll for a continuing education class; or a spiritual retreat. There is nothing as empowering as having a plan – a destination – a vision as to where you are heading. By doing this in December, we ignite our energies so we hit the ground running in 2014!!
2. Personal Planning Questions to Recap 2013
Each of us have the opportunity to ‘start over’ each year. I like to start by recapping the prior year – what worked/what didn’t work relative to my life, my goals, and my intentions. Frankly, this year has been hit and miss for me. I have made hard calls – most good, yet many were extremely difficult. And yes, as with all hard decisions, there was fall-out. Yet, regardless, all were learning experiences; and thanks to those decisions, 2014 has been positioned to be fabulous. Here are a few questions to help ‘give pause’ and stimulate our thoughts on this past year:
- How did I spend my time in 2013?
- What were my greatest accomplishments?
- What (and who) were my greatest disappointments?
- How did these experiences change me?
- How do I want to be different in January 2014 than in January 2013?
- What am I tolerating? Why? What steps can I take to make a change?
- What am I trying to force to happen? What would happen if just ‘let go’?!
3. Now What?! A few questions to help plan for 2014:
- What will be my primary focus in 2014?
- What do I really want? What is still holding me back?
- What do I want to contribute to the world?
- How will I hold myself accountable?
- What is working for me? How can I have ‘more of that’?!!
- What kind of partners do I want in 2014?
- What may need to change? What are the first steps I need to take to make that change?
- At the end of 2014, where would I like to find myself? How do I get there?
- What is my intention for myself in 2014?
We own our lives. No one else does. So, what we decide to focus upon – in thought, word, and deed – will be what we create. So, print out this blog, spend time re-learning about yourself, and determine what you want to manifest in your life and this next year! Let’s make this year the best year yet!!
Merry Christmas and blessings to each of you this holiday season, thank you for sharing your time and energies with me and with Alignment, Inc., and may 2014 bring health, fulfillment, growth, and joy to you and yours!
Kristin,
Great article as always! I am going to print this off and give it to my daughters for their reflection going into 2014. Take care and have a beautiful holiday with friends and family.
Laurie Ann Stetzer
Terrific Kristin,
A guide I will use.
Blessings to you and your family.
Perfect, great advice from our own personal guru! Thank you, Kristin, for being the best friend ever…I am reading Tear Soup and it has been a Godsend. You are right, 2014 will be so much better because we will follow your advice. Stay healthy and beaming our special Kristin rays of joy!
Thank you for the comments! I wish all my friends, clients, and partners a happy, reflective holiday season and a wonderful beginning to a new year.
Pat, you have been in my thoughts and prayers. I loved that book (someone gave to me as well) and I wanted to share with you. It is indeed beautiful. Blessings to you and sending love –
Kristin-
thanks for the great reminders…each year does bring its challenges and opportunities…it is remembering to have the grace and gratitude to work with them… wishing you the best for the holidays!
Once again your sage and thoughtful counsel resets my thoughts and intentions to a positive and grateful direction!!!!
I’m a man but just wanted to say that this is great. Much of the blog is applicable to men or women. Two items that struck me for 2014 was a continuation education class and a spiritual retreat. Much appreciated and Merry Christmas, Happy New Year!
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